This for a while, I met a lot about friendship problems so that I suddenly feel that friendship in the eyes of some people share the weight, it seems more than I usually have in mind to be many times more.
I found that these people for friendship endless distress, there are two factors in mind. One factor is the lonely, the other factor is the lack of self-confidence too. So lonely life of a person put all the focus is on friendship, the lack of self-confidence to make a person worry about the outcome of the friendship to be added to the extent that lose their friendship, they find themselves.
No one who does not know important, however, I met this friend of a number of distress for the friendship, I feel that if a person is too dependent on the friendship, then he is not derived from the friendship happy, but more of the distress.
We often say in his speech stressed that "a person to happiness lies in the other people, all inevitably be disappointed." That "other people" includes all people – friends, parents, children, husband and wife, and all …
To make friends, it should be. Love a friend, you can.
As a friend to give up everything, it is worth!
However, you can not do without their own.
Not only have its own, but to trust their own!
Therefore, I want to amend what we always believe in a concept, I would like to advise you not to always take the initiative to go begging friendship, but let friendship come automatically.
Quoted a French movie, then a person who has many friends, and there would be no friend!
You can with friends are in a position of mutual attraction, it is best to allow yourself first sufficient condition to attract friends. In other words, we should first equip themselves so that they have light. Thus, in making friends in, you can only enter and attack or retreat can stay, you will not worry for the friendship strained, can not be all day long.
In other words, use the appeal to make friends, rather than charity favors or cozying up approach to seek a friend.
Do not expect everyone to your friends, friendship should run its course.
Love friends, like friends, with good faith when dealing with a friend, but do not rely on friends, not demanding a friend. You can do this a few friends can enjoy the happiness.
Another key to the maintenance of friendship is "to maintain the distance."
No matter how the two people is better, and each should respect that point is always indispensable.
Many people, friends and a familiar, they share everything in. The point when the original understanding of courtesy and sense of proportion nor attention. A friend is not one to respect each other, pay attention to courtesy and propriety, when about to misunderstanding and friction of the.